Do you have family members you dont want your children around? I have a 2 year old son and a 9 month old daughter and I have family I never want them to meet. I'm related to some pretty pathetic people and I dont want my children to see that. Does that make me a bad person? To keep my children away from their blood family? I'm blessed that my husbands family are amazing people and my kids have them. My family is the exact opposite!